Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25). That is, we should pursue our wives in sacrificial love, leading as husbands who have been transformed by the gospel. We should date our wives.
So then, what is at stake if we don't?
Justin Buzzard, author of Date Your Wife, answers in this 12-minute video:
Interview with Justin Buzzard: