An Alternative Script for Same-Sex Attraction
Nov 20, 2013
If we want churches to be a place where those struggling with SSA can thrive, here are three areas we need to grow.
Is It Sin to Experience Same-Sex Attraction?
Dec 17, 2013
Is same-sex attraction itself sinful, and if so, how should we deal with it?
Same-Sex Attraction and the Wait for Change
Jan 29, 2014
Heterosexuality is not my ultimate goal — holiness is. And my holiness is not ultimately contingent on the reversal of my attractions.
True Kinship in God’s Family
May 15, 2014
Recently, I had the amazing joy of welcoming into the world my newest niece and nephew. It’s a privilege beyond measure to be called an uncle. However, by all natural accounts, this is an impossible reality because I only have…
Orienting on Homosexual Orientation
Jul 17, 2014
I remember a particular conversation I had one evening with a good friend about my struggle with same-sex attraction (SSA). He asked me, “Attractions are messy, complicated realities. How do you deal with them toward other guys?” The real issue…
A God Worth Repeating in Worship
Jul 19, 2015
Today, I read the most repetitive praise song I’ve ever encountered in my life. It repeats the same line twenty-five times. In fact, that line makes up half of all the lyrics! As a worship pastor, part of my job…
Eat with Those Who Weep
Helping the Hurting at Thanksgiving
Nov 25, 2015
I know what it is like to feel alone. I know what it is like to watch everyone else celebrate an endless number of special occasions with someone whose presence is simply assumed as absolute, while I scroll through my contacts trying to find a friend who isn’t “already busy.”
Homophobia Has No Place in the Church
Mar 29, 2016
Homophobia is not biblical opposition to certain behaviors, but a fear-based attitude that often leads to unhelpful stereotypes and mistreatment.
How to Warm Your Heart in Worship
Nov 6, 2016
What do you do when the worship song in your mouth is not in your heart?
God Knows What You Need in Worship
Feb 5, 2017
God promises to work in the regular, ordinary gathering of his church to provide for our true needs by his Spirit.
What Is Really Best for Me?
Applying the Bible to the Same-Sex-Attracted
Mar 27, 2017
Does the “progressive sexual ethic” really have a corner on good fruit? Consider three fresh arguments in support of what Christians have long believed.